Comments on: Advice 4 Women: How to NOT Get a “Deserved” Raping http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/ Deciphering the Enigma that is Life Mon, 16 Jan 2012 11:26:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Boyd Clough http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-642 Boyd Clough Tue, 13 Dec 2011 19:06:36 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-642 Sorry, but I have to actually oppose with this posting. But bear in mind, I thoroughly grasp that we all may have our varying outlook. Sorry, but I have to actually oppose with this posting. But bear in mind, I thoroughly grasp that we all may have our varying outlook.

]]> By: Introducing the ‘No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act’ aka the ‘It’s Not Rape Unless You’re Bruised and Bleeding’ bill « So… this happened. http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-619 Introducing the ‘No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act’ aka the ‘It’s Not Rape Unless You’re Bruised and Bleeding’ bill « So… this happened. Mon, 14 Mar 2011 22:57:58 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-619 [...] they look like they’re ‘asking for it’ (bonus link: How Not to Get a Deserved Raping) or just simply will never be the owner of a vagina. Need I remind you all that 77% of [...] [...] they look like they’re ‘asking for it’ (bonus link: How Not to Get a Deserved Raping) or just simply will never be the owner of a vagina. Need I remind you all that 77% of [...]

]]> By: Introducing the ‘No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act’ aka the ‘It’s Not Rape Unless You’re Bruised and Bleeding’ bill « Femme-inism http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-617 Introducing the ‘No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act’ aka the ‘It’s Not Rape Unless You’re Bruised and Bleeding’ bill « Femme-inism Fri, 04 Feb 2011 18:17:40 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-617 [...] they look like they’re ‘asking for it’ (bonus link: How Not to Get a Deserved Raping) or just simply being the owner of a vagina. Need I remind you all that 77% of anti-abortion [...] [...] they look like they’re ‘asking for it’ (bonus link: How Not to Get a Deserved Raping) or just simply being the owner of a vagina. Need I remind you all that 77% of anti-abortion [...]

]]> By: fetish clips http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-615 fetish clips Sat, 01 Jan 2011 17:20:07 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-615 I just posted a link to your article here on my facebook page. Many props for your brutal honesty. I totally agree with all of it. I just posted a link to your article here on my facebook page. Many props for your brutal honesty. I totally agree with all of it.

]]> By: Rhythmic http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-614 Rhythmic Fri, 31 Dec 2010 21:27:19 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-614 It is not visible which comment I was replying to, so here's a quote: ------------------------------------ Since you’re either so infantile or so stupid that you can’t grasp the concept of ASKING A WOMAN IF SHE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU, you’re clearly either too young or too stupid to be having sex in the first place. Do the human race a favor and go wank alone in your room. ------------------------------------- Evil quote of the year. It is not visible which comment I was replying to, so here’s a quote:
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Since you’re either so infantile or so stupid that you can’t grasp the concept of ASKING A WOMAN IF SHE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU, you’re clearly either too young or too stupid to be having sex in the first place. Do the human race a favor and go wank alone in your room.
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Evil quote of the year.

]]> By: Rhythmic http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-613 Rhythmic Fri, 31 Dec 2010 21:21:47 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-613 Yours was the evil comment of the year. While the bare thought of rape makes my stomach churn in rage and disgust, and while I by no means condone looting, I by no means condone inconsiderate teasing and false advertising either. Want a better world with less violence? Read this carefully and STOP CONTRIBUTING! Acting as a cock tease does trigger justified anger at you. This by no means justifies people acting out on their anger in an unlawful way. This by all means justifies people shunning you out of their society. Only the ones who are too sexually attracted remain to feed your ego. Unluckily, there are too many of them, so you get away with it. And these are the people you resent for being attracted to you. How ironic! Read you comment once again. Do you realize how hurtful and full of hate it is? Most angry people will just move on, but there are some with emotional scars (AKA hurt too much in the past) who will overreact. Playing with fire gets your burnt. Don't believe me? Try it and watch out* ... "But fire SHOULDN't get me burnt!" "PUNISH the fire!" "I am NOT RESPONSIBLE!" Yeah, whatever. One more thing: Posting hurtful comments like yours adds hurt to the world and scars the scarred some more. Want less rape? STOP CONTRIBUTING. I know you'll refuse get my point. You'll choose to hate instead. Rape will continue. That's how the world works. Or could you be better than I thought? _________________________ * Please, DON'T try it! Yours was the evil comment of the year.

While the bare thought of rape makes my stomach churn in rage and disgust, and while I by no means condone looting, I by no means condone inconsiderate teasing and false advertising either.

Want a better world with less violence?

Read this carefully and STOP CONTRIBUTING!

Acting as a cock tease does trigger justified anger at you. This by no means justifies people acting out on their anger in an unlawful way. This by all means justifies people shunning you out of their society.

Only the ones who are too sexually attracted remain to feed your ego. Unluckily, there are too many of them, so you get away with it. And these are the people you resent for being attracted to you. How ironic!

Read you comment once again. Do you realize how hurtful and full of hate it is?

Most angry people will just move on, but there are some with emotional scars (AKA hurt too much in the past) who will overreact.
Playing with fire gets your burnt.

Don’t believe me? Try it and watch out* …

“But fire SHOULDN’t get me burnt!”
“PUNISH the fire!”
“I am NOT RESPONSIBLE!”

Yeah, whatever.

One more thing: Posting hurtful comments like yours adds hurt to the world and scars the scarred some more.

Want less rape? STOP CONTRIBUTING.

I know you’ll refuse get my point.
You’ll choose to hate instead.
Rape will continue.
That’s how the world works.

Or could you be better than I thought?

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* Please, DON’T try it!

]]> By: Cara http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-608 Cara Sun, 13 Jun 2010 23:19:40 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-608 From a feminist's point of view, there are circumstances where a girl or woman is likely to become raped. However, they do NOT deserve it. But there are some good men who are looking out for their girlfriends', mothers', sisters,' etc. well-being if they had to imagine what rape victim they know has been through. I think it would be wise if women and girls alike took some type of self-defense classes to REDUCE these situations. I've been in many situations where I could have been raped. I snuck out of my house to see a boyfriend who could have raped me. I was in a police car with two men who could have raped me. But no one had. My advice is that if people looked out for each other, it would likely reduce the chances of anyone getting raped. But that's just me. And not all men are bad, but you have to take better precautions when being with anyone. From a feminist’s point of view, there are circumstances where a girl or woman is likely to become raped. However, they do NOT deserve it. But there are some good men who are looking out for their girlfriends’, mothers’, sisters,’ etc. well-being if they had to imagine what rape victim they know has been through. I think it would be wise if women and girls alike took some type of self-defense classes to REDUCE these situations. I’ve been in many situations where I could have been raped. I snuck out of my house to see a boyfriend who could have raped me. I was in a police car with two men who could have raped me. But no one had. My advice is that if people looked out for each other, it would likely reduce the chances of anyone getting raped. But that’s just me. And not all men are bad, but you have to take better precautions when being with anyone.

]]> By: Molly http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-605 Molly Tue, 30 Mar 2010 08:15:44 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-605 Congratulations on not raping somebody. You want to know how women can not get raped? It's very simple. Men: don't rape women. No matter what she's wearing, no matter what you think she wants, no matter how many drinks she has had or how much you think she's been flirting with you. Don't rape women. Don't follow women to the bathroom and rape them. Don't follow women to their cars and rape them. Don't drug women and rape them, don't beat women and rape them, don't jump women and rape them. Don't do it. Don't rape women. Easiest thing in the world. Congratulations on not raping somebody.

You want to know how women can not get raped? It’s very simple.

Men: don’t rape women.

No matter what she’s wearing, no matter what you think she wants, no matter how many drinks she has had or how much you think she’s been flirting with you. Don’t rape women. Don’t follow women to the bathroom and rape them. Don’t follow women to their cars and rape them. Don’t drug women and rape them, don’t beat women and rape them, don’t jump women and rape them.

Don’t do it. Don’t rape women. Easiest thing in the world.

]]> By: JOSHUA http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-604 JOSHUA Sun, 21 Mar 2010 07:44:42 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-604 Bravo for not raping that girl. you sir are a hero and a gentleman. get this man a prize. I think it's obvious the author is not a rapist but it's quite easy to become frustrated by his stereotypes about men and women. I fear this article is more about your blue balls rather than as a warning message to women. You don't get a prize for not raping someone, that's just how we are supposed to interact in society. I'm sorry she touched against your "private parts" and didn't put out. but you have turned your sexual frustration into a "blame the victim" argument. sure you didn't victimize her, but you are saying she was offering it and should have to follow through. that sir is unfair. There is also the possibility you thought you were doing better with her than you were, slick. And one last bit of advice, don't use an example that compares a woman to a department store and sex as a marked up item . Wow do they hate that. does that mean getting sex from you is like getting soup at homeless shelter? It's free and to get it someone just has to show up and look pathetic enough? Bravo for not raping that girl. you sir are a hero and a gentleman. get this man a prize.

I think it’s obvious the author is not a rapist but it’s quite easy to become frustrated by his stereotypes about men and women.
I fear this article is more about your blue balls rather than as a warning message to women. You don’t get a prize for not raping someone, that’s just how we are supposed to interact in society. I’m sorry she touched against your “private parts” and didn’t put out. but you have turned your sexual frustration into a “blame the victim” argument. sure you didn’t victimize her, but you are saying she was offering it and should have to follow through. that sir is unfair.
There is also the possibility you thought you were doing better with her than you were, slick.
And one last bit of advice, don’t use an example that compares a woman to a department store and sex as a marked up item . Wow do they hate that. does that mean getting sex from you is like getting soup at homeless shelter? It’s free and to get it someone just has to show up and look pathetic enough?

]]> By: Sam http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/2008/10/25/advice-4-women-how-to-not-get-a-deserved-raping/comment-page-4/#comment-602 Sam Tue, 16 Mar 2010 05:02:50 +0000 http://emqtv.com/blog/uncommonsense/?p=36#comment-602 Your argument is disgusting and absurd. These are fantastic responses to this would-be-violator: http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2008/11/14/advice-on-how-not-to-advise-women-not-to-get-raped/ http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/05/27/inside-a-date-rapists-living-hell/ Your argument is disgusting and absurd. These are fantastic responses to this would-be-violator:

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2008/11/14/advice-on-how-not-to-advise-women-not-to-get-raped/

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/05/27/inside-a-date-rapists-living-hell/

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